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Confused?

Post by Bubsiies on Sun May 23, 2010 11:49 pm

Alrighty, so one of my friends for about four years now is just out of control. She can be a really nice person to be around sometimes, but other times I find myself wondering why I'm friends with her. My friend Ryan, that she claims also to be friends with, (the lead guitarist in our band) is feeling a bit ridiculed at the moment. She keeps being a bitch to him saying that he's ugly/can't get a girl/worthless/etc. He's a really nice guy and isn't all that bad looking btw. She's had sex with multiple guys and flirts with just about everyone. She's failing just about all her classes, doesn't give a shit, and smokes pot periodically. Then again, she inspires me to be crazy and outgoing at parties and such... but still.

Should I end the friendship err what? I know it sounds simple, but it's really not. She's friends with EVERYONE and if this ends badly I could have a lot of people wanting to beat my ass. I just don't know... but it really did piss me off when she just sat there being a bitch to one of my friends, especially when I know he could be mad at me for not telling her off right then and there..
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Re: Confused?

Post by Thalès76 on Mon May 24, 2010 1:16 am

When a so called friend annoys me I tried to avoid him, you don't have to stay friend with her if you don't want to. Not necessarily end the friendship like that but you just show it by your actions, no even need to tell her, like stop calling her, just stay away from her.
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Re: Confused?

Post by Soriphen on Mon May 24, 2010 3:15 am

What Thales said is pretty good advice.

As for me...I don't like to lose friends...but, when people say stuff like that, it makes me think if they say shit about me the same way. I usually tend to stay away from people like that. Well, more like I keep at a distance as to still be nice and polite. Anyway, if it really bugs you, stop her in the act and tell her not to say it around you. Simple as that. If she's a good friend, she'd respect your wishes.

Anyway, for me to end friendships, I honestly could give two shits about what people would think of me if that happened. What I'm saying is to not worry about what people think about you cause' if they had sense, they'd know you're doing it cause' you friggin care...those heartless bastards.



Last but not least...most importantly too.

Pleaaase don't take our advices seriously and be cautious if you're going to abide by them. Reason being is that it's better if you screwed up by your own plans than screwing up with ours and regretting that later....truuuust me. Oh, if you're not clear on that *cough* devil *cough* (lol), I'm saying this cause in a nutshell, you don't want to regret falling down a hole because of heeding someone else's advice.

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Re: Confused?

Post by Thalès76 on Mon May 24, 2010 4:33 am

Yeah and you know this reminds me of an old friend, he used to smoke pot and partying all the time, calling me a pussy because I wouldn't want to do any drugs lol. I just tried to avoid him, I haven't seen him in 2 years.
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Re: Confused?

Post by Bond on Mon May 24, 2010 5:44 am

Look, I told you it was over, I hit it and I quit it, ok?
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Re: Confused?

Post by TrollCapAmerica on Mon May 24, 2010 10:51 pm

Bubb1es wrote:Alrighty, so one of my friends for about four years now is just out of control. She can be a really nice person to be around sometimes, but other times I find myself wondering why I'm friends with her. My friend Ryan, that she claims also to be friends with, (the lead guitarist in our band) is feeling a bit ridiculed at the moment. She keeps being a bitch to him saying that he's ugly/can't get a girl/worthless/etc. He's a really nice guy and isn't all that bad looking btw. She's had sex with multiple guys and flirts with just about everyone. She's failing just about all her classes, doesn't give a shit, and smokes pot periodically. Then again, she inspires me to be crazy and outgoing at parties and such... but still.

Should I end the friendship err what? I know it sounds simple, but it's really not. She's friends with EVERYONE and if this ends badly I could have a lot of people wanting to beat my ass. I just don't know... but it really did piss me off when she just sat there being a bitch to one of my friends, especially when I know he could be mad at me for not telling her off right then and there..

If this is a serious post ill throw you some info that might help.Its hard to give advice to women since I dont trust your raging hormones which make you insane but........

Shes got self-esteem issues.Real ones not any of that Saturday morning special message shit.I can imagine her home life must be less than fullfilling but I wont even try and guess how that works.Shes putting herself over that guy because it gives her a feeling of power and control when shes lacking it elsewhere in life.She is probably a little bit interested in him and that makes her feel conflicted since she can control/dominate him and yet probably would like him to be less of a pussy and stand up for himself and be a real man.Shes being a whore because she wants some kind of real intimate feeling and cant separate mindless sex from actual caring which really isnt hard to imagine since the majority of messages women get today about their own self-worth is as cumdumpster girlfriend or shit with even less substance.Shes smoking pot because its something to DO.Pot is harmless the intent of the person smoking is what matters

Just be cool and tell her to chill out now and then.If she decides to get bitchy with you then shes not REALLY a friend is she?Generally speaking you should defuse these situations.Be firm but also keep in mind her thought process and how bad shes likely feeling.

She may be going down the drain and turning into a vapid cumdumpster or she might be crying out for help.I cant say for sure but you might be able to help her out if you keep your head together

Now then the LAST thing I can tell you.Your afraid of her?Whats she going to do make high school slightly uncomfortable now and then?Screw that its fucking high school you wont give a shit about it or 95% of the people in at once your out.This little league playground shit is pointless in the long run but your principles and any guilt your left with will last the rest of your life
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Re: Confused?

Post by Thalès76 on Tue May 25, 2010 1:29 am

Pot is harmless if you smoke in moderation.
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Re: Confused?

Post by Soriphen on Wed May 26, 2010 1:52 am

Okay, so, what's she gonna do guys? I'm betting this will die over time and become a trivial matter. Lol at highschool drama...makes me lawl indeed.

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Re: Confused?

Post by THTB on Wed May 26, 2010 2:09 pm

I voted "Slap dat hoe" and "Eat a cookie".

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Re: Confused?

Post by 1SSJ4Gogeta1 on Wed May 26, 2010 2:59 pm

Well I'll give you good advice. You see... this site has many benefits. Not only this site is good for gaming but it is also a really GREAT therapy place. Our therapists are mostly 4 year veterans who know a lot about these kinds of problems. So what you should do is that you should bring your friend to our Chatango therapy room. Or if she is not camera shy, bring her to our Tiny chat therapy room for face to face chat. Personally, I like the Tinychat therapy room better because you actually get to meet your therapist face to face while on Chatango, you only see text.

Trust me on this, your friend will become a better person and you will not have to "lose her." She won't do anymore bad things like drugs,sex, being a bully, failing school, etc. She will become a kind, loving hardworking student. So you don't have to lose her. Bring her here and she will become a better person in no time!!
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Re: Confused?

Post by KingDiamond on Thu May 27, 2010 12:25 am

1SSJ4Gogeta1 wrote:Well I'll give you good advice. You see... this site has many benefits. Not only this site is good for gaming but it is also a really GREAT therapy place. Our therapists are mostly 4 year veterans who know a lot about these kinds of problems. So what you should do is that you should bring your friend to our Chatango therapy room. Or if she is not camera shy, bring her to our Tiny chat therapy room for face to face chat. Personally, I like the Tinychat therapy room better because you actually get to meet your therapist face to face while on Chatango, you only see text.

Trust me on this, your friend will become a better person and you will not have to "lose her." She won't do anymore bad things like drugs,sex, being a bully, failing school, etc. She will become a kind, loving hardworking student. So you don't have to lose her. Bring her here and she will become a better person in no time!!

*brain explodes*
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Re: Confused?

Post by Bond on Thu May 27, 2010 5:52 am

Why does KingDiamond have more posts than me
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Re: Confused?

Post by KingDiamond on Thu May 27, 2010 6:12 am

because no one can stop the power of the King.
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Re: Confused?

Post by Soriphen on Thu May 27, 2010 2:32 pm

1SSJ4Gogeta1 wrote:Well I'll give you good advice. You see... this site has many benefits. Not only this site is good for gaming but it is also a really GREAT therapy place. Our therapists are mostly 4 year veterans who know a lot about these kinds of problems. So what you should do is that you should bring your friend to our Chatango therapy room. Or if she is not camera shy, bring her to our Tiny chat therapy room for face to face chat. Personally, I like the Tinychat therapy room better because you actually get to meet your therapist face to face while on Chatango, you only see text.

Trust me on this, your friend will become a better person and you will not have to "lose her." She won't do anymore bad things like drugs,sex, being a bully, failing school, etc. She will become a kind, loving hardworking student. So you don't have to lose her. Bring her here and she will become a better person in no time!!

I lolled so hard....this is GENIUS!

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Re: Confused?

Post by Heromaster111 on Thu May 27, 2010 10:54 pm

Bond wrote:Look, I told you it was over, I hit it and I quit it, ok?

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